Unwrapping: A Novel About Generational Trauma

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“You know, Maya, I’m not going to push on that. I will share something I have said to some of my other clients with parent issues. I know you’re angry with your mother, and perhaps there’s some anger at your father for not being there for you. And perhaps you still carry guilt over not being a ‘good’ daughter, whatever that is. But as an adult, I think it’s important to understand that you owe your parents nothing.”

“Parents have a contract, of sorts, to provide food, clothing and safe shelter to their kids until they leave the household. And I know yours fell down on the latter, Maya. In return, though? You owe them nothing. It’s great when parent–child relationships work well into the adult years. But it’s not a requirement.” 

She was silent through his little spiel, and he could tell she was fighting to hold back her emotion. He wanted to know more about the trauma in her life. Although he might have been inclined to work her trauma through EMDR, she had previously told him she was familiar with it and didn’t need it or want it. He didn’t ask for details. Sometimes, he believed, if you have faith in your client, you go with what they want because it’s their journey.

Maya closed her eyes. Steve heard her sniffle. Then he heard her breathing softly—breath in, hold, breath out, hold. He waited. 

​***

​Her voice was petulant, with a hint of the anger Steve recognized in her current self. But her expression was softer and more pained than present day. Her eyes narrowed and darkened. She was 15. 

​“Joey and Anna,” she said quietly, with evident distaste. “They were 15 and 16, the oldest of the five kids in the house. Anna was a brunette with a short butch haircut. My height. She made me feel good about myself again. It was only a couple months after the first asshole raped me. I could still feel him. Still sore.”

​Maya winced at the memory. She spoke with her head down and appeared even more pale than usual, almost shrinking into herself. Steve strained to hear her when she continued, but he didn’t want to disturb her narrative.

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